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THE MODERN MOTHERLESS HOUSEWIFE
Women are supposed to DO LIFE TOGETHER. We are primal, hilarious, complex, exciting humans that share many of the same life struggles with our bodies, our relationships, our communication styles, our desires, and our goals for a peaceful life.
EVERYTHING TABOO OR ET
WHAT IF I DID THE OPPOSITE OF EVERYONE ELSE?
That's my biggest social experiemnt of my life.
What if when someone I love dies and I DON'T become so sad that I can't do anything because subconsiously I am programmed that I'm SUPPOSED to be depressed when someone's body isn't physically here anymore? I CAN HEAR AND FEEL THEIR SOUL sometimes, so I feel okay and WHY IS THAT BAD?
WHAT IF ...
when you told me to take a blood thinner i didn't?
when you (society) tell me I am a LOSER and LAZY if I'm a MOTHERLESS HOUSEWIFE?
My Story
WHY is it "bad" that I can't have children and don't want to or can't physically work full time? Was that instilled in us to respect our husbands so it's not "all" on them?
That's interesting if you said yes...because what I'd say next is let me tell you what is REALLY disrespectful to your husband as the result of this way of thinking and living...
You're exhausted from not taking care of yourself by thinking you're taking care of yourself by taking care of everyone else - including at work. Your children get the leftovers and your husband gets barely anything...especially not his best friend he fell in love with.
Becuase the best friend he fell in love with wasn't as busy or stressed out from being a mom or keeping up with societal pressures of having a house bigger than you need, more food or vehicles than necessary, more clothes than ... nevermind I can't finish that sentence honestly haha, you can never have too many clothes. Hippies, I'm talking to you too - live a little and splurge on THINGS sometimes, it's fun.
Anyway - moms and wives, I want to help you, while in turn we help each other and my benefit is that I get to feed my primal instinct and desire of COMMUNITY. Because ladies...WE DID NOT DO LIFE ALONE ever in history until the past 30 years...and it didn't work in my opinion, being raised with a relentlessly working mother, she didn't realize that she was giving us the leftovers of her. And that's okay, but NOW as 30's and 40 something women - we have the power to change that if you're up for thinking about and maybe even trying something new.
I am one of those women who do believe a home is happier when the Woman of the House gets more down time, time to grocery and fun shop, take a nap while kids are at school instead of answer emails or do Zoom calls, and create a very realistic cleaning schedule for the the entire family - and only do YOUR part.
Don't be his mother and do what he needed to do but it wasn't done on time or good enough - let him do it because the other way will build resentment event though right now you're rolling your eyes saying, "but this way would build even more resentment and be a domino effect into many other issues that I choose to avoid by doing what he said he'd do but didn't..." Whew. Don't worry, I totally get it.
If you are a WAW (women alone wine) like my old self, let's get together... click here to schedule your free CHECK IN time and day that you can come hang out.
You don't have to talk, be pretty, ugly, or anything...just come all dressed up or in sweatpants, or in an apron, we don't care we accept you the way you are...because we're not whining anymore.
INSTRUCTIONS:
STEP ONE: write down the numbers that you relate to
1. FRIENDSHIPS WITH MEN AS A MARRIED WOMAN
2. FRIENDSHIPS WITH SINGLE WOMEN AS A MARRIED WOMAN
3. FRIENDSHIPS WITH MARRIED WOMEN AS A SINGLE WOMAN
4. FRIENDSHIPS WITH WOMEN WHO HAVE CHILDREN, WHEN YOU DO NOT
5. FRIENDSHIPS WITH WOMEN WHO DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN, BUT YOU DO
6. WORKING TOO MUCH: is it stealing your femininity?
7. OVER-WORKING IS MAKING YOU UGLY: the old school wife
8. WOMEN WHO LOVE SEX BUT DON'T HAVE IT
9. WOMEN WHO LOVE SEX AND GET IT WHEN THEY WANT IT
10. WOMEN WHO LOVE SEX AND FEEL GUILTY OR WRONG INITIATING
-- OTHER MISC TOPICS:
Losing a Loved One and not feeling "sad enough" or processing it like others --- no reason to feel guilty
Eating and Loving food NO MATTER YOUR WEIGHT -- just focusing on mental and physical health
PETS are full time children too
CLEANING: The modern day Housewife
Contact
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